The Grass is Greener on the Other Side
“The grass is greener on the other side” is a common cliché. Others are: “Looking for greener pastures,” “Can’t see the forest through the trees,” and “The grass is greener where it is watered.” Or as in the famous Rolling Stones song, which stresses that we might not get what we want but will probably […]
Learning the Hard Way
Most, if not all, of us have made mistakes. Although we know that slipups are necessary building blocks to knowledge, it doesn’t make it any easier. What’s that saying? The harder the lesson, the deeper the learning. Hmmm. I think that’s true. I’ve had many hard lessons. Some are funny, some embarrassing, and some I’d […]
Just a Good Thought
According to research, the average person has approximately 12,000 – 60,000 thoughts daily. 80% of thinking is attributed to negative thoughts driven by the fight-or-flight pattern of the brain, and 95% of those thoughts are repetitive. Doesn’t that make the saying about repeating oneself “like a broken record,” “beating the dead horse,” “washing the same […]
A Year In Review
What can’t you own but use every day? What can’t you keep but spend frequently? What can you lose and never get back? The answer? Time … This is the last day of 2024. Another year around the sun. How many have you done thus far? Did 2024 pass quickly for you? It did for […]
The Worst Christmas Ever
This time of year, a common practice is gifting, giving something to someone without expecting anything in return. It can be a watercolor drawing of the sunset, a crocheted blanket, a handwritten poem, fixing up the garage, or shoveling snow off a roof. One can also buy just the right gift for their loved ones, […]
A Very Cold Day
The coldest temperature ever recorded near where I was born and raised was -73° Fahrenheit in 1935. In those temperatures, frostbite can happen in minutes on any exposed skin. Blood pressure lowers, breathing becomes shallow, and there can be a slight thickening of the blood, which can cause chest pain in some. I’ve not experienced that […]
Gratitude for the Natural World
It seems I discovered the healing power of nature (or maybe nature found me) at a very young age. Growing up in a small town in northern Canada, close to Muskeg country, the wilds were out my front door, and whenever the chaos of my home life got too chaotic, I always found refuge walking […]
November
In the north, November can be a stark month. Gone are the brilliant gold, scarlet leaves of autumn. Gone are the hot, lazy days of summer. Many birds fly south to warmer climates. Some animals slow down by finding shelter and preparing for their long winter nap. Tree buds go dormant. The sun rises in […]
A Near-Death Experience (NDE)
The fear of dying is quite common, and most people state that the thought of dying is scary, at least to some degree. Some reports indicate women fear death more than men, and others argue younger people fear death over the elderly. It’s not something we talk about at a cocktail party or having coffee […]
Pumpkin Pie
October is usually the time of year I start seeing pumpkin flavors advertised at supermarkets, coffee shops, and eateries: pumpkin spice lattes, pumpkin crème brulee, pumpkin bread, and tarts, cookies, soups, cheesecakes, and muffins, building up to the holidays and, yes, that infamous pumpkin pie. I don’t mind pumpkin flavors now, but I hated them […]
Suffering Softens Stones
Suffering is defined as the state of undergoing pain, distress, or hardship. For example, war will cause widespread suffering; my friend suffers a lot during the winter when it’s cold, and his joints get stiff; or, because of her unimaginable guilt, she suffered greatly. I don’t know anyone who hasn’t suffered at some point in […]
My Last Year
None of us know how long we will live, but would you want to know if you had a magic ball that told you the precise time of your death? Perhaps you might say yes if you are young and your magic ball reports that you have 100 more years to live. 100 years is […]
Everything is Possible
If you’ve read my memoir, Wandering (2023 Gray Wolf Books), you may recall that I toured England, Scotland, and Wales before embarking on the overland journey to India (Chapter 28). I did not share much about those few months before taking the Magic Bus to Greece because I couldn’t choose which experiences to include and which […]
Silver Tip Poems
My favorite subject in high school was English Literature. In my junior and senior years, my English teacher had a soft spot for poetry. We delved into the works of Edgar Allan Poe, Walt Whitman, and Robert Frost and even dipped into Rumi and Pablo Neruda. I ate it up and wrote hundreds of poems, […]
Letting Go
Several of my neighbors shouted. “The ice rink is ready! The ice rink is ready!” Many fathers, including my stepfather, had spent weeks clearing and preparing a space for the six apartment complexes to play ice hockey and for their families to ice skate on family night. The last few days had been particularly cold […]
